Author Archives: Jennifer Woodside

About Jennifer Woodside

I am CEO of The Disability Training Alliance.

Embracing Life

“I’ve learned that I can embrace a lot more people with one arm than I could ever have embraced with two.” – Bethany Hamilton

On Sunday I saw the movie Soul Surfer.  It is about what happened to a young 13 year old surfer, Bethany Hamilton, when she lost her arm in a shark attack.  The shark was 14 feet long.  In the event, she lost 60% of her blood.  Due to some quick thinking from both the father and the brother of her best friend, her life was saved by a gifted, compassionate doctor and Divine intervention. 

The film touched on many issues.  Instant difference.  Healing and rehab.  Images of beauty. Wantedness for future intimacy.  Purpose and meaning. Worldview:  Is life seen the same as it always was or is it forever changed?  God‘s plan.  Parenting:  should she be encouraged to find other things in life to do if she could not do what she did before, or should the daughter be encouraged to do what she is gifted at with modification, such as a handle on her board?  Assertiveness: “This prosthetic arm won’t do what I need it to do, I don’t want it. It’s of no use to me!” Venus De Milo. One armed Barbie

A poignant scene in the movie was when a reporter asked Bethany “How did you feel?” She turns to the reporter wordlessly, showing her gashed, scarred shoulder.  There was nothing more to be said.  Silent words:  “How would you feel?”  One soul tsunami juxtaposed with an actual one.  In life, we all catch a bad wave now and then. What matters is getting back up on your board when knocked down by it.   Many waves in a lifetime keep coming, and one must be resilient and courageous to meet them with intention.

I would like to talk to my friends about the difference between being born this way or made this way by a life event.  Do they ever miss what they had?  A good friend once said “I don’t feel disabled until something or someone reminds me that I am.”  Little things. An image in the mirror. A comment by an onlooker.  Larger things.  Not being considered an equal contender in life. 

I will write more when I edit this post, these are things I am thinking.  I think I will show a one armed Barbie or a little Kelly without hair and a cute scarf at my next speaking engagement as the “toy story” attention getter. I used to make braces out of tin foil and bandaids so my doll would look like me.   I noticed in ads for back to school and holidays that the kids did not look like me. I felt misunderstood. I always felt the staring and bullying would be decreased if disability/ability were more mainstream. Bethany is succeeding in that regard! 🙂


EEOC Publishes ADAAA Final Regulations – Effective May 24, 2011

EEOC Publishes ADAAA Final Regulations – Effective May 24, 2011

“The EEOC’s final regulations implementing the ADA Amendments Act (ADAAA) were published in the March 25, 2011 Federal Register. They become effective May 24, 2011. The major focus of the regulations is the definition of a disability.”

“The Act and the new regulations will make it easier for individuals to claim protection under the law, as the definition of a disability is broadened and easier to meet. This will result in the need for employers to provide more accommodations, and will require employers to shift their focus from whether an individual has a disability to whether discrimination occurred.” – EHS & Safety News America

Read the full article from EHS & Safety News America,EEOC Publishes ADAAA Final Regulations – Effective May 24, 2011.

Source:  http://www.employmentincentives.org/

* NOTE:  I did copy straight from that page because it is a general govt notification. I felt that would be all right in this instance.


Inequality and Opportunity

 

Title:  The Handshake
Series:  Awareness Is The First Step Toward Change
Creator:  Terry Bremer (creative director)
Date:  Circa 1990
Source:  Disability History Museum (online)
www.disabilitymuseum.org/dhm/lib/catcard.html?id=441

 On Kickball, Group 4, and Growing Up:
“I was crushed that my accomplishments did nothing to expand her sense of who or what I was. Since I was coded for disability, she saw me as one ever in need of help, if not protection.” – from an essay by Andrew Leibs

These questions and answers are taken from a phone interview I had with Andrew in mid-April 2011.

Tell me about yourself and your experience with disability.

I too have faced discrimination all my life, at 39.  I have cerebral palsy.  I have struggled to prove everyone wrong, that I am competent and intellectual, brilliant, despite my unique walk.  In my youth, I said I did not belong in special ed, that I did belong in honors classes, and I got into them.  My favorite job was my first one, as a Student Assistant at the college, in fall 1991.  The college was just beginning its ADA initiatives.  I served as a scribe for students with mobility impairments or learning differences.  I read textbooks on tape by leaning over my tape recorder and pressing the record button.  Now we have the Kindle!  It was a great beginning.

The working world after that has been unkind, at times.  As a degreed professional, at one company, I was told my degree did not matter because it was not earned recently, my experience did not matter because it was not already management level, and my founding of the employee resource group there did not count because it was volunteer and not paid experience.  A granted request for an accommodation was considered a raise, and a reclassification of my job description was considered a promotion.  For both I was told to be grateful.  “I am telling you this so you do not get your hopes up. You don’t want to look foolish. Everyone can see you applied.” Despite graduating from college with Cum Laude distinction, I was pigeon-holed in an entry-level position and had not received a promotion in 10 years.  Last week I interviewed for a job, and I was told that I needed to look more professional to protect the image of the brand. I look as professional as I can, although I look very young and have a distinct walk.

I decided to courageously step out on my own.  I am a Cornell University Certified Consultant with The Disability Training Alliance.  I train companies to raise interest in ADA compliance and give understanding, knowledge, and awareness of disability issues.  I am certified to train the following nine (9) Cornell programs. 

Program 1:   Disability Awareness: Understanding the ADA — and How to Communicate Respectfully and Effectively  with People with Disabilities
Program 2:  Getting Hired and Moving Ahead in a Job When Working with a Disability
Program 3:  Tapping into Talent: Best Practices in Hiring, Retaining and Accommodating People with Disabilities
Program 4:  Serving Customers with Disabilities: Reaching Out Expanding Your Market
Program 5:  About Hidden Disabilities: Legal, Practical and Human Issues
Program 6:  Reaching Individuals with Disabilities: Accessibility in Federal, State or  Municipal Entities
Program 7:  Reaching Individuals with Disabilities: Accessibility in Private or Commercial Businesses
Program 8:  Accessible Technology in the Workplace
Program 9:  Accessible Web Sites: Everyone Benefits!

I also have programs about best practices with employee resource groups and establishment of a mentoring program.  I am developing one about best practices for universal design that are elegant and go beyond ADA mandate.  One about permission marketing and other types of visionary pioneering is percolating.

1. First, tell me about your organization–what does it do; does it help both employers and employees, and if so, how?

The Disability Training Alliance was founded in 2005.  It is an alliance of diversity professionals and subject matter experts training organizations on matters of disability awareness.  Topics of interest include awareness and etiquette, disclosure and accommodation, talent management, accessibility for all, employee resource groups, mentoring, sharing of best practices in consortiums.  Our mission is to create successful experiences and outcomes in all phases of employment: recruitment, interviewing, hiring, retention/engagement, and promotion/advancement.

 We provide consulting to corporations such as retailers, insurers, pharmaceuticals, healthcare providers, financial and educational institutions, telecom and technology companies, etc.  In these changing times, companies need awareness and education when it comes to the inclusion of disability in corporate culture. We present best practices in training workshops to ensure access for all.  In the U. S., people with disabilities are an untapped talent pool 54 million strong.  We discuss employment trends.

Why is disability awareness important?  Those “living with disability” are the largest minority group in the world, one anyone may join at any time, due to traumatic birth, accident/injury (youth, workplace, civilian, and military), new diagnosis, progression of disease, and living a long life.  One in five on the planet are affected by disability personally, and four in ten are affected tangentially.  In th US, this group is the most spendy:  $1.4T in buying power, and $220B in discretionary income.  (Those baby boomers!)

The incidence of disability is increasing for many reasons. Due to innovative medical technology, people are living longer, and surviving life experiences they would not have survived in the past.  One in two of the elderly have at least one disability; the most disabling condition is arthritis.  Conflicts around the globe are causing our young veterans to return with debilitating injuries; they still need to earn a livelihood somehow to support their families.  Due to the recessionary post 9/11 economy, baby boomers are staying in the workforce for longer periods of time; the retirement limit is being raised to keep wage earners in the economy.  Because of modern diet and lifestyle, our children are not exactly healthy.  Childhood obesity is a serious concern; our future wage earners will be experiencing disability sooner than their parents and grandparents ever did, even before they enter the workplace.  Employers must be prepared for these realities.

2. How has hiring of employees with disabilities changed over the past two decades, e.g. are there some disability groups that are now finding employment that didn’t used to?  

“There are no good jobs for people with disabilities in your company; but there is a good person with a disability for every job in your company.”
  – Richard Pimentel, consultant and advocate on employment and disability issues

According to the National Council on Disability (NCD), “the promise of the ADA is the elimination of disability-based discrimination in all aspects of society.”  This promise of help/entitlement provided by the ADA has been negligible.  The NCD states, furthermore, “Disparities still exist in access to health care (insurance) and economic self-sufficiency (personal financial assets).”  People with disabilities want societal inclusion, and that includes wage-earning employment.

Twenty years after the passage of the ADA, as of July 26, 2010, 30-50% of working age adults with a disability, including college grads with a disability, are employed, compared to a 90% employment rate for working age adults and college graduates without a disability.  This is with advances in education, transportation, building codes, communication, technology, etc.  That does not mean 30-50% full-time employment.  Of those who are working, most are underemployed.  What that means is that they are overqualified for the work they do, the work they are doing is unrelated to their knowledge, skills, abilities, and strengths, or it is transitory (temporary and/or part time) and not permanent  employment. 

Accessibility to employment is a civil rights issue, an economic sustainability issue, and a human rights issue.  Most disabilities occur during prime working age.  Everyone is temporarily able-bodied.  Disability can happen to anyone at any time. 

3. What resources or strategies would you suggest to a college graduate about to start looking for work, e.g. gauging if a prospective employer will accommodate his or her needs; important considerations, etc.

Waiting until graduation from college to commence with the job search is too late.  The process should begin in junior high/early mid high.  Accommodation requests and confident disclosure training need to happen early, so students are ahead in their self-advocacy. 

There are remedies for this bleak employment outcome.  Although there is not yet a national organization for all students with disabilities, as recruiters would find by race, ethnicity, and gender and possibly orientation on college campuses, students with disabilities can be found if recruiters know where to look. One strategy is to source from BOTH the career services and the disability services departments for outreach; every junior college and college and university in the country has two these departments.  The reason BOTH need to be sourced is that they do not interact; they are in separate circles of influence. 

Another strategy is to go to the user-experts.  There are also national organizations that can assist.  The National Business and Disability Council (NBDC) has the Emerging Leaders Program.  Career Opportunities for Students with Disabilities (COSD) has the Career Gateway and Student Summits and Annual conference.  The American Association of People with Disabilities (AAPD) has two internship programs:  The Congressional Internship Program and The Federal Agency Internship Program.  The American Association for the Advancement of Science (AAAS) has the Entry Point Program for science, tech, engineering, and math (STEM) majors.  Lime Connect, founded by Rich Donovan, a graduate of Columbia University’s Business School, is another resource. Disability Mentoring Day (DMD) is nationwide during National Disability Employment Awareness Month (NDEAM).  This year NDEAM will be on a date TBD in October 2011.  NDEAM is every October.

If PWD need accommodations, they need to ask, and not wait until their job performance suffers. In my experience, companies will not offer accommodation. It must be sought.  That was the retail industry. Technology and telecom and other industries are different. That is one point of view. However, what if one of your employees has a heart attack or a car accident, and has a sudden, immediate need to work from home or from where they are receiving care?  Is the company prepared to have a buddy or department come out to the home or rehab place to set up an office, to go above and beyond legal mandate? It does not matter what level of job band you are or how high potential you are considered to be to have accommodation provided for you.  It needs to be provided when reasonable and possible, whether you are an admin or an executive, for equitable enjoyment of employment.

4. How much employment of disabled people can be attributed to the ADA? Has the ADA made a significant impact on helping disabled people get hired? 

“It’s changed the lives of people. You know, if you are a parent pushing a stroller, if you are pulling a roller bag behind you, if you are a delivery person delivering something (using a ramp or a curb cut), you are using all of those features that are there because of the ADA.”
– Andrew Imparato, American Association of People with Disabilities (AAPD)

 I would “yes and no”.  Yes because accessibility to transportation and buildings themselves allows for access to interviews, and accessible technology provides employment possibility: earning potential and enhanced productivity.  In 1990, only 5% of buses were accessible.  In 2010, 95% of buses were accessible.  To those who rely on public transportation to get to and from work or school or around town to run errands, shop and dine out with loved ones, or cast their votes at the polls, accessible transportation is a life changer.  In December 2010, when I saw a kneeling bus in Albuquerque, NM, I was enthralled.  That is due to the ADA.

Since the passage of the ADA, the presence of diversity and inclusion initiatives and the formation of employee resource groups (ERGs) within their context – which are used to create a sustainable workforce and expand market share – have become prominent and award-winning.  In their desire to eradicate barriers to employment and economic power, corporations must consider discrimination on the basis of both obvious and non-obvious disability along with other forms of it by race, religion, ethnicity, gender, and orientation.  I will explain ERG best practices later on.

No because the numbers are not showing it.  They have remained flat for 20 years, similar to the numbers a century ago.  The employment rate is still terribly low compared to the general population’s employment statistics (with and without a high school diploma or a college degree).  Preconceptions and misconceptions, equating physicality with ability, and fear of the unknown exist with recruiters, HR representatives, managers, and coworkers.  An affirmative action/quota component is missing in the ADA which decreases its effectiveness, in my opinion, compared to other diverse groups by race, ethnicity, gender, and orientation. 

Government programs are often a disincentive to work.  What I mean by that is the cliff effect:  the actual benefits to staying on government assistance outweigh the personal costs of not being on it.  Although physical barriers to employment are being removed, attitudinal barriers to employment remain.

5. Should a candidate with a disability be up front about and discuss their disability during interviews–are there pros and cons to that?  Or is simply relying on your resume and experience the best approach?  

As Career Opportunities for Students with Disabilities (COSD) says in one of its taglines, “Some employers feel uncomfortable hiring the ‘disabled.’  Some don’t.”  Pursue the ones who are comfortable.  This question is a dual one about disability disclosure and the process of a request for a reasonable accommodation.

I wish we could rely on the resume alone to keep the playing field as level possible, as all other candidates do.  However, the playing field is decidedly not level and people are people with their own unspoken biases to what they consider “entitlement” regarding civil rights for those with disabilities.  Chai Feldblum, EEOC Commissioner in DC, says it is an equality + remedying an equality – situation.

Per Cornell University, the ADA has different disclosure provisions for three (3) stages of the employment process: hiring, or “pre-employment,” post-offer but pre-employment start, and post-employment or start of work.  Thoughtful consideration includes the individual, the job task, and the disability’s nature.  “A reasonable accommodation is:  1) any change in the work environment or way things are done that allows a person with a disability to enjoy equal employment opportunity, 2) provided to qualified individuals unless this poses an undue hardship, 3) an informal, interactive process between employee and employer – in an ideal world.  The employer is obligated to provide an accessible hiring process.  If an employer claims they can’t provide the accommodation, they must show that it causes them undue hardship:  http://www.eeoc.gov/facts/jobapplicant.html.”

Be a confident self advocate.  You have legal rights.  Know yourself:  your personality, abilities, preferences, skills, and goals.  You are not your disability.  That is just a label, a societal construct.  Know your disability:  what you need to ask for, what provisions and progress have been made through the years.  Think highly of yourself!   Be bold about your ability and be able to explain your performance strengths and transferable skills from work/school and life activities.  Skills a candidate with a disability brings to the table are analytical, communication, and business skills gained from a lifetime of thinking faster and more visionary than anyone else; problem-solving, decision-making and leadership skills gained from experiential learning;  internships, networking, mentoring opportunities, and officer-holding positions (high school and college campus, social/community/religious and professional organizations).

When deciding to disclose, use situational judgment. If the disability does not affect job function or performance, there is no reason to disclose.  If the disability does affect the essential job functions and thus require accommodation to be successful, or if it would affect one’s performance reviews once on the job, be prepared to show documentation and present a formal request for an accommodation once hired.  Be proactive. One way to disclose informally would be to overcome objections ahead of time.  “Let me show you how I would handle that or do that, or how I have handled and done that in the past.”  One of my mentors, when he was starting out in his career, he took his accommodation (a step stool) with him to job interviews to allay “unspoken” apprehension.

Recruiters and HR reps can make this easier as a common courtesy.  For travel planning, let all candidates know whether the interview site can be reached by public transportation (or not) and is accessible.  For reassurance, let all candidates know if the interview will be half an hour (or half a day).  For inclusion, offer collateral in accessible formats, and have open captioning for all meetings and webcasts.  Partner with non-profits in the community; they are your subject matter experts!  Contact your regional Disability and Technical Assistance Center (DBTAC).   Call 1-800-949-4ADA for help.  See  http://www.dlrp.org/.

Don’t be afraid to hire a person with a disability, fearing the person will request an expensive, outlandish accommodation.  Many people with disabilities self-accommodate and problem solve expertly by this point in life.  Most accommodations, if needed, cost less than $500.  Accommodations might be expensive, exchanging the presence of heavy manual doors for automatic opening doors, for example.   This change allows for universal design:  the employee with a mobility issue who uses a wheelchair or crutches, and the employee pulling a laptop bag with one hand while carrying a Starbucks and papers in the other. All access is a best practice.

6. Any ancillary advice, anecdotes, and observations regarding the people with disabilities in the workplace would be very welcome

Employee Resource Groups (ERGs) help with all aspects of a company’s business case in recruitment, employment, supply chain, technology, and marketing.  Participation in them, while voluntary and outside of stated job responsibilities, leads to increased visibility through leadership, possible promotions, gained market share, strategic planning feedback, innovative customer service, engaged community involvement.  They are business entities, led/supported/attended by executive level upper management. 

People with disabilities are capable and competent with candor,  a can-do spirit, and unique perspectives.  They do not need incubation like baby chicks.  “One cannot consent to creep when one feels the impulse to soar.” – Helen Keller. They need to be included for their abilities and perspectives.

According to Disability and Business:  Best Practices and Strategies for Inclusion (2006) by Charles A Riley II, professor of Business Journalism at Baruch College and former editor-in-chief of WE Media, only 7% of corporations in this country have such a group for disability awareness in corporate culture.  This book is my bible.  Other current sources for information on ERG best practices are the US Business Leadership Network (USBLN), the National Business and Disability Council (NBDC) and Diversity Inc. Best Practices. 

A leading insurance company has an ERG called possAbilities.  It is chartered. It has a centralized budget and corresponding reasonable accommodation policy.  Its focus is on employees with disabilities, including veterans, family members with disabilities, disability-owned suppliers, and customers with disabilities.  It raisers awareness with its annual National Disability Employment Awareness Month (NDEAM) events and Disability Mentoring Day (DMD), a part of NDEAM, educates through lunch and learn symposiums, establishes internship programs, leads by attracting enthused supporters who advocate for PWD, promotes culture change, has relationships with community partners,  supports community events for PWD.   ERG’s highlight the inherent value, significant life experience, and diverse perspectives PWD bring with them to work every day.  “possAbilities has changed business culture, policies, and technology in support of people with disabilities to enhance an inclusive and supportive environment that empowers individuals with disabilities to be productive and achieve their full potential.” These are best practices any company could be quite proud of!

For more about Disability and Business: Best Practices and Strategies for Inclusion, see an excerpt from the chapter “Handshakes Not Handouts” at http://www.bos.frb.org/commdev/cdevfin-disability-market/71-riley.pdf.


Why Companies Need Disability Training

“Shoot for the moon.  Even if you miss, you will land among the stars.”

PWD are the largest and most spendy demographic in the world , one in five individuals globally.  According to Rich Donovan, CIO of Wingsail Capital, Graduate of Columbia University Business School, “With 1.1 billion people globally having a disability, controlling over $4 trillion annually, this market is about the size of China. Stakeholders in disability, friends and family, represent an additional 2 billion people with a disposable income of $8 trillion.”  In this recessionary economy, who would not want to capture that market?

Cornell University’s ADA Trainer program was created by a grant from the National Institute on Disability and Rehabilitation Research (NIDRR).  The purpose of this innovative program is for trainers to present in person, on-site, to those in positions of influence, to assess attitudinal barriers that private and public entities have toward the inclusion of people with disabilities. 

Twenty-one years ago this summer after the passage of the ADA, are the barriers can’t, won’t, or don’t know?  With a 30% employment rate that has held for about a century, these barriers to employment do exist. As architectural barriers are being removed, attitudinal ones remain.

I’m not sure why.   Thomas Edison, who had both a learning and a hearing disability, created the incandescent light bulb in 1879 and founded General Electric. This country had its first mainstreamed college student, Helen Keller, in 1900. Herman Hollerith, who had a cognitive processing disorder, created the first data tabulating machine and established IBM in 1924. A president with polio, FDR, ran the country from 1933–1945. 

What are your company’s concerns and dilemmas regarding awareness and sensitivity training, hiring and retention, position and promotion, communication and teamwork, inclusion and diversity, accessibility and accommodation, marketing and sales, etc.?  There are some, certainly. Legal compliance by federal mandates is one matter, intentional application in corporate culture is another.

More importantly, how can companies be award-winning and remarkable when it comes to including this demographic? I believe PWD – employees, visitors, vendors, other partners, and customers – are purple cows in a field of hum-drum cows.  See Seth Godin’s theories on permission marketing.  Best practices for herding them in the door of your company need to be shared.  Economic survival is at stake. 

With 70% unemployment, historically, where do they get all this money? Wages earned before disability was incurred – most become disabled at peak of earning power between 45-55,  savings earned over a lifetime of work, insurance settlements from wrongful injury, disability income, family inheritances. 

You should care about demographic trends for 4 reasons. One, an aging workforce. As the Boomers retire en-masse, there is going to be a serious brain drain in this country.  Kiplingers had an article about it.  There will be pressure from stakeholders to cease the outsourcing and source homegrown talent.  Two, the economy. We have been through 2 recessions in a decade. Workers need to stay in the workforce longer, and we need new taxpayers that are qualified, ready and willing to be in the workforce supporting the economy – if they were recruited to and welcomed.  Three, our vets. They are surviving their obvious and non-obvious injuries on the battlefield, and they have the right to earn a livelihood for themselves and their families. Four, our children.  Our future workers are not growing up to be healthy. They will begin to experience disability due to poor nutrtion and other cultural factors in modern life sooner than their parents and grandparents ever did.

Are companies prepared for these work/life realities at their doors?  Demographics are destiny.


Elphaba and I

“Are people born wicked, or is wickedness thrust upon them?”

Many events have changed my life for the better on this disability awareness journey.  One of them was seeing the hit Broadway musical, Wicked.  I had always felt a bit of sadness for Elmira Gultch.  In Dorothy’s dream, the lonesome woman is the Wicked Witch of the West, angry after losing her sister, those ruby slippers, and that little dog, too.  In the musical, she is renamed Elphaba.  This young woman is feared and unpopular because of her disability – being born verdigris.  Elphie, who advocates for the disenfranchized and learns to cast spells, journeys to Oz to meet the all-powerful Wizard.  She is certain he can “de-greenify” her so she will be judged by her leadership skills, not her outward appearance.  Then, one day, after Elphie and the Wizard partner together, and she is matched with him in reknown, she is certain there will be a day ”that’s all  to do with me!”.  When that day happens, she will never be brought down by discrimination and fear ever again.  No, a simple bucket of water thrown on her by a young Kansas farm girl did the trick. I found myself crying by the end, because I understood her struggle so intimately. 

“Are people born disabled, or does society make them so?”

 

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Unlimited

This is a blog I wrote on 11/26/2010 as a guest blogger on a friend’s wordpress page. 

Today I met Jelena. She is 1½ years old, adopted last month from a baby house (orphanage) 3 hours outside of Moscow. She has gorgeous grey-blue eyes and white blonde, baby fine hair. She has a flirtatious smile. She also has mild Cerebral Palsy (CP). Currently she is in occupational therapy and physical therapy.

I believe Jelena was in a crib most of the time so far in her young life, so she did not develop as babies normally do. With her CP, the delay is even more apparent. Learning to crawl, stand, and walk would have helped her limbs be flexible naturally. As they are, the muscles are rigid. In her shiny mary janes, she walks scissored, with one leg right in front of the other, falling forward, like a vine growing on a trellis.  Her new leg braces are pink with little lambs on them.

There was a discussion about “thriving.” With therapy and good nutrition at last, she may not need surgery, or to wear her orthopedic braces for long, and she will overcome and be normal like other children, my friends said, as they oohed and ahhed over her.

I piped up and said, “It is quite all right if she does need those things for a brief time or her lifetime to correct her gait while she is growing.”

It is best to do that now, while she is small and resilient. Her young parents nodded in agreement. They have already been through so much, including 3 trips to Russia to make her their daughter.

Russian officials had asked, “Are you certain you want this one?”

They said, “Yes! We are certain!”

I have a feeling little ones with special needs do not gingerly grow up to live a life without limits there.

I told her young parents how mine put taps on the soles of my orthopedic shoes to prevent the toe from dragging and wearing a hole into the leather. Besides being money saving, those taps had a delightful therapeutic effect of helping me learn to tap dance and mimic some steps of my childhood movie idols: Shirley Temple and Bill Bojangles Robinson. Tap dancing strengthened my legs and made me confident. I enjoy kickboxing and yoga now.

I adored Nadia Comăneci, who is the first young gymnast to score a perfect 10 in Olympic competition. My dad made me a wide balance beam close to the ground, so I could practice my balance, my gymnastics routine, with my ponytails sticking straight out of my head and my artistic “Nadia” hands. To an imaginary crowd, I stood on a podium, and bowed in my braces, accepting roses and my gold medal, too, and singing the National Anthem with my 4 octave range!

 

As Christmastime approaches, my favorite best childhood Christmas memory of all is when I got my own “ruby slippers.” I was in first grade. I loved Dorothy Gayle’s sparkly shoes. To think, she could have gone home the whole time if she had only clicked her heels. Why didn’t someone tell her? Was it so she could appreciate her journey, not the destination? Whatev! I would have been upset!   

 My Orphan Annie orthopedic boots (brogan style) only came in black or brown. I had brown. Santa/Daddy had shined my worn boots to a luscious candy apple red and refined my silver braces till they blazed as bright as a star and gently placed them under the tree for me to joyfully discover Christmas morning. I wore my red shoes so proudly.

I am an advocate for disability awareness and will soon be certified by Cornell University as a Corporate ADA Trainer. At my previous place of employment, with assistance from many friends, I helped establish the employee resource group for associates living with disability. This group served both caretakers to a loved one who has a disability and those who were personally affected themselves.

The best thing we did was to make the building accessible for all, almost 20 years after the passage of the ADA. Through friendly persuasion, I bravely and assertively speak of what needs to be done. It is my mission, my life’s work. I blaze trails for the little girl I was, and for the little ones who come after me, such as Jelena. She will know a different world then I have known, hopefully one more kind and tolerant to differences as she grows up.

People living with disability are the largest minority group in the world. When one considers both obvious and non-obvious disabilities, one in five souls on the planet are affected. Four in ten people have a loved one who is affected. They usually shop in an entourage.  If one is reached in marketing or recruiting or other engagement efforts, many more than one are reached. It is the one group anyone may join at any time, due to a difficult birth, accident (civilian and military), illness, or simply living a long life.

Like Jelena, they are trying to find their place in the world, and they will not be ignored. They learn to bravely defy gravity every day!

 

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